Pay It Forward: The Next Generation of Running
Sunday, February 5th, 2012There are a lot of reasons we run: to lose weight, to be more active, become one with mother nature, spread running and a healthy lifestyle to others and to feel good about oneself. For me, it WAS all of the above. I’ve been lucky to accomplish all of these goals and more. I’ve even been able to make a more meaningful connection to God thru running. All of these are great, except there’s something missing. Over the last couple of years, there’s been a void that I haven’t been able to fill, until now – passing my passion for running to the next generation.
According to the American Heart Association, one in three children in America are overweight or obese. That’s ridiculous. I know the culture in the United States provides less time for us to promote a healthy lifestyle in our kids but come on!!! How are we able to reverse this trend of Fat Americans by not attacking the root of the problem, the next generation.
Our kids idolize us. No matter what we do, the see it. Like it or not you are a roll model (take that Charles Barkley). You may not have signed the waiver but if you have kids, it’s part of the package. It’s your responsibility whether you like it or not. If you’re a runner, this should be a no brainer. Your kids WANT to be a part of your life. If running is your thing, you should be more than willing to share the experience with them.
This premise finally hit me over the head in December. The day after running the Rock-n-Roll Las Vegas Half Marathon, my eldest son cornered me and said he would like to try running a race with me. After processing the statement for a brief moment, my response was “heck yeah!” While I’ve always hoped my kids would follow in my footsteps, I never wanted to be that parent that “forced” their kids to fulfill my dream. The other thing this declaration did was stir another desire in me – passing what I learned (too late in life) to the next generation. If I could inspire my kids to lead a healthy, productive life – what ripple effect could that possibly create? The repercussions are limitless!!!
I grew up with a father who was part of the original running boom. Although I didn’t know it at the time, he greatly inspired me to take up running later in life. I have frequently have flashbacks of him heading off for a morning run in his cotton white t-shirt and rundown New Balance shoes held together with Shoe Goo [If he knew what he knew now, he just would have bought new shoes]. While I wish his inspiration would have grabbed my subconscious sooner than it did, I’m glad it finally burrowed its way thru my thick scull.
Now it’s my turn. While my kids have seen me head out the door running for six years now, it’s time to really set the wheels in motion. My son (11 years old) and I have started training together. We call them “Son Runs” and they’re the most fulfilling runs that I’ve ever been a part of. Not only does my heart fill with emotion when he flashes that huge grin at me before we start but we’ve gotten even closer with our solitary time spent together. It’s amazing how much you can learn about your offspring by spending 10-20 minutes with them alone on the road. You begin to realize that they do listen, they do grow up and they become a spitting image of you.
We don’t ever listen as closely as should. Our minds our preoccupied by a stressful day at work, everyday issues and the ever quickening pace of our lives. If I could ever hope anything from this post is that you’ll take two minutes out of your day and think about how you can pay it forward. How something as little as inviting your child on a run could set them on a path early in life that they will one day thank you for.
Our date has been set for the 2012 Rock-n-Roll Las Vegas Half Marathon. Dad and son will run together in what will be for me, the greatest moment in my life.
Thank you dad for in some way inspiring me to become the man I am today. I in turn can only hope that my sons will say the same thing to me, 20 years from now.
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